there. He had called me when he got off work and asked if I was hungry
already because he was starving. But sadly for him I had just eaten
about an hour ago. So he said " ok then I'll go home and eat lunch
then and I'll call you up later so we can have dinner". So I said ok
sounds like a plan. So in the mean time I found things to keep me busy
until he called to agree on a time so that I could start getting
ready. But of was getting close to 7 and still no phone call yet he
said he'd call me back when he first calles me @4. I was starting to
get really hungry too. I started reading this book on Friday last
week called " he's just not that into you" and so according to the
book, if he doesn't call you "he's just not that Into you". So I told
myself, I'm not going to call him. If he wants to ice dinner with me
then he'll call....right? Well 7 came and went and still no phone
call. My mother was getting on my case about not leavin yet and said
if I wasn't going to go I might as well rat something now so I could
take my meds and sleep. Thoughts of "ooooh this kid better not have
stood me up" ran through my head. I get really irritated when I'm
hungry and haven't eaten. So I couldn't take it anymore and I sent him
a text " hey I'm getting hungry are we still going to go?" fifteen
minutes passed and I still had no reply. It was getting close to 8 and
I was still no where near ready, which I told myself I wasn't going to
get ready until I knew he was on his way because I didn't want to get
ready and not end up doing anything in the end. Finally he calls and
begins the conversation with " soooo your hungry now are you? Feed me
werewolf! Feed me! Now is it? Hahaha". And I said yes i'm hungry now.
I've been hungry but I was waiting for your phone call which never
came. Then he said ok well let me get ready and I'll call u in 10 when
I'm leaving my house. So I finally start getting ready to leave. He
arrives at my door and I greet him with a big hug ( I love his big
bear hugs!) We end up picking johnny carrinos since we've both nvr
really been there before and we've heard great reviews about it. So we
rat and chat about work and other matters, while I occasinally had to
excuse myself to blow my nose...it was quite funny actually... Then we
leave and couldn't think of what to do so we just drive around the
both chino spectrums, the new center behind the old kirkorian theater
and the stores over on pipline and chino hills pky. He saw some venues
that he was interested in checking out later because him and his bff
are starting a business that is top secret and looking for a space to
lease for it. Then I gave him a tour of 2nd st in p-town since he's
nvr been there before and we called it a night. Ended up going back
home and parking somewhere near by and chatted somemore. Here I
finally went at him about not calling and he said he was sorry but had
fallen asleep. He woke up a bit later than expected and saw I had
texted him. He said that if that ever happpens again I should just
call him because most likely he has taken a nap. He won't think I'm
being pushy. ( that was one of my concerns about calling as well) I
then went on about how I dislike that he cannot male plans with me at
least a couple of days in advance. It's always spur of the moment day
of kinda thing which is fine by me every now and then but not every
single date. We didn't get much compromising done about that one
though and so then I went on about him not making me feel wanted If he
could not confirm a date with me ahead of time it makes it seem like
I'm his last resort, like there are other things that might come along
that are better than hanging out with me. Then he said he was sorry I
felt that way but that,that was not the case and I shouldn't feel that
way. In short we didn't get much resolved there but at least he knows
now were I'm coming from and why I might be upset with him at times.
He then asked me what my plans were for the weekend and what day would
b best to see each other again. I told him Friday or Sunday night. And
he said ok and that was that, he hasn't really brought it up again or
confirmed which days we will be going out again. I'm a busy girl and
like to have my schedule planned out early on so this is a problem for
me. Oh well we'll see how things progress.
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